Loving Yourself 101: At what point is enough?

You know the sad part about loving someone soo much it hurts? Its that some point unknowingly we start loving them more than we love ourselves we lose who we truly are in them. Relationships fail  because at some point we change and we forget to do it together. The goals change the routines change and the questions begin. We begin to accept words from our partners instead of actions. I know its truly simple we hear it daily "actions speak louder than words" But you know as well as I do that doesn't mean a damn thing when you love someone. However you love who they use to be not who they are now, and sometimes that takes us reminding ourselves daily. Do you ever watch "Being Mary Jane" her sticky notes are small reminders of loving yourself and grabbing strength in small reminders. Why not do it? I think its a perfect idea reminders are needed and so are associations. Why do we choose to remember the good things instead of the bad things that our exes have done to us. Im not saying hold on to the hurt Im simply saying use it to remind yourself how great you are. So you will stop trying, stop fighting. Maybe you should ask yourself this am I worth it? Did I try to change things, have I prayed and tried my hardest. If you have there is nothing else you can do but remind yourself that enough is truly enough. Trust me and when you truly feel it is that doesn't mean that you wont cry that doesn't mean that you wont have moments, but I promise you no matter what you wont reach out to them. Let go of what you can change and know that there is nothing you can do that will mess up anything God sent to you. If it's for you it will be.